Why do girls play with dolls anyway?

It’s a question I’ve never really bothered to consider before.  (That sounds a little strange, as I’ve worked as a toy buyer for several years.)  It’s just one of those fundamental truths that I’ve taken for granted over the years – like cats loving cream and umbrellas turning into tea cups just when you need them in a storm.   As I grow older, I’m trying to look a little more closely at my own behavior and that of those around me. So when I see children playing with dolls, I notice plenty of obvious and healthy reasons for their activity like:

  • Role-playing – Allowing children to act as caregivers, teachers, brides, stylists, designers, stage directors, hostesses,  doctors, etc.  Spring-boarding the imagination in this way, allows children to identify which roles they have an affinity for. Some doll outfits let little people be big people for a while.  (Don’t we all wish we could be adults only when it is convenient and then revert?  …Oh wait, I may know a few adults who have mastered this – not always to their credit.)

OR

  • Carrying traditions forward from generation to generation – Historical costumes help bring the past to life in a way that preserves embellishments and conventions that might otherwise be forgotten.  Books and movies can show it, but there’s nothing like hands-on for learning how something works – or doesn’t work. Outfits with period details like oversized pinafores, nightcaps, hand muffs and capes introduce play pieces which are no longer commonplace in today’s juvenile department.

AND

  • Color, pattern and design – fostering experimentation with the visual and tactile elements of doll apparel promotes creativity and an understanding of textile engineering.  Plus – who doesn’t like changing up colors and patterns on themselves or the things they love?  “Project Runway” has plenty of adult viewers and I don’t care if it’s your Gucci bag or your latest model of farm equipment – changing things up can be a feast for the eyes and build a brand.

- All very sensible and wholesome reasons for encouragement.   But…there’s got to be another component that makes it so universal and involuntarily motivated.

Here’s my take on the whole thing:

…..Fun and (let’s face it…) Convenience

  • A doll is a friend who is always around
  • Shares secrets and keeps them better than anyone
  • Doesn’t judge or need to be impressed
  • Travels well under an arm or in a handy trunk
  • Needs you only when you need to be needed
  • Sleeps when tucked in
  • Stays awake when you can’t sleep
  • Doesn’t ask to share your candy or sweets (but may share if you offer)
  • Wears whatever you say looks best –

This leads me to an example of the enormous popularity of it all and of some places where the good reasons and good causes come together.  Below, is a listing of upcoming American Girl ® Doll Fashion Shows to which children AND adults are going in droves:

Franklin, TN – Special Olympics TN – October 24-25, 2009

Plano, TX – Junior League Plano – October 24-25, 2009

Colorado Springs, CO – Kid Power of Colorado Springs – October 25, 2009

Mayfield Heights, OH – University Hospital Cleveland (Ireland Cancer Center) – November 1, 2009

Lindenhurst, NY – Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church – November 6-8, 2009

Tulsa, OK – Junior League of Tulsa – November 6-8, 2009

Concord, NH – Junior Service League Concord, November 7-8, 2009

Verona, NY – Upstate Cerebral Palsy – November 8, 2009

Potomac, Washington, D.C. – Prevention of Blindness Society of Met WA – November 8, 2009

Mandeville, LA – Our Lady of the Lake Roman Catholic School – November 13-14, 2009

Los Altos, CA – Palo Alto Auxiliary – November 13-14, 2009

New York, NY – The Epiphany School Foundation – November 13-15, 2009

Kalamazoo, MI – Kalamazoo Symphony Orchestra League – November 13-15, 2009

Buckhead, GA – Junior League of Gwinnette & N. Fulton – November 14, 2009

Boston, MA -  Junior League – November 14-15, 2009

Ringwood, NJ – American Diabetes Association – November 14-15, 2009

Fairport, NY – Rochester General Hospital Association – November 14-15, 2009

Staten Island, NY – Snug Harbor Cultural Center – November 14-15, 2009

Orlando, FL – Kids Beating Cancer – November 14–15, 2009

Houston, TX – Hits Theatre – November 14-15, 2009

Austin, TX- Children’s Medical Center Foundation of Central Texas – November 15, 2009

Hampton, NJ – Immaculate Conception School – November 15, 2009

Pittsburgh, PA – Junior League of Pittsburgh – November 20-22, 2009

Joliet, IL – Easter Seals Joliet Region – November 20-22, 2009

Santa Barbara, CA – Junior League of Santa Barbara – November 20-22, 2009

Charlotte, NC – The Assist by Knight Foundation – November 21, 2009

Lancaster, PA – Hands on House (Children’s Museum of Lancaster) – November 21-22, 2009

Litchfield Park, AZ – Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation – December 4-6, 2009

Enjoy,

Prince Stephen

www.thequeenstreasures.com

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